Thursday, April 24, 2025

A New Leg of the Journey

I haven't used this blog for nearly 5 years now.  I used to be all over it just putting, mostly random, thoughts on the 'paper' especially when I participated in the A-Z challenge and also documenting all of my kid's birthdays.  I still encourage you to look if you need an idea!  However, life evolves.  My kids are no longer interested in the over-the-top parties, and I lost interest in the A-Z challenge.  So, here we are, 5 years later.  Why?  Because I have taken a huge step in my journey.  Thanks to support from family and friends and new insurance that actually covers the procedure, I embarked on my path to better physical health with a new tool.  The Single Anastomosis Duodeno-ileal Bypass or SADI-S.  This is a nifty, fairly new procedure that was first brought to medical world in 2007.  You've probably heard of the gastric bypass (started in 1966) or the gastric sleeve (1980), but not the SADI-S.  It's a combination of the two.  Care to see more?  https://youtu.be/JpjFoVoOVZg 

Anyhow, I've been working on just getting approval since October.  Insurance may cover, but they still make you work for it!  I had to get cardiac clearance, psychological clearance, and then attend separate appointments with either the nurse or the dietician.  Y'all know how patient I am, right?  lol.  every time an appointment got moved or they couldn't get me in for the next one for 2-3 weeks drove me batty!!  I mean, come on people, let's do this!  Anyway, as I've been told multiple times and, while I still don't like it, time passes quickly and we finally completed the package of requirements and insurance approved it and then....well, it took 2 months to get scheduled (aacckkk!!!).  But April 21 came, surgery happened, and now I'm in the recovery phase of this adventure.  Some interesting take-aways this week....

- I only remember being in pre-op and then I was scooting over to the operating table.  I do not recall leaving pre-op at all and I have no memories after the scoot.  Just waking up.  It’s really weird.  I'm sure they talked to me, right?  Told me to scoot up or down on the table, lay on my back, tell me when they were giving me the good meds?  but there's nothing in my memory bank.  It's strange to know I'm missing a segment.

- I can remember what I said while waking up and loopy, like asking the nurses if they liked cookies.  They thought I was just saying random things.  They were surprised when, through the efforts of 2 friends, a kid I birthed and the hubby, an entire case of GS cookies arrived the next morning for them.  

- NOTE - do NOT give the nurses the cookies BEFORE they finish your discharge paperwork.  These are words of wisdom, trust me.  Those nurses disappeared so fast with my papers just sitting there on the desk waiting to be finished.  Sigh.

- My mother is awesome!  When I finally got to my room, every nurse around already knew me quite well.  Like mother, like daughter, I guess.  Once you get us started, over-sharing is a thing.  It's what makes us so lovable!

- And lastly, and this really important in case anyone else does this.  No one verbally explained that the Tylenol should be either liquid or crushed.  It's buried in the paperwork (i found later) but for the last 2.5 days, I've been hurting.  One of my incisions apparently got more if the surgical action than the others and it is not a happy place.  no infection, just bruised and sore.  I've been holding my stomach when doing any kind of movement.  Today, i called to ask if this was a sign of something bad.  The surgeon's nurse asked if I was keeping up with my meds and if i was crushing everything into water.  Umm....no.  the hospital even gave me pills to swallow.  She pointed out that the pills at the hospital were in the gel tabs.  I have regular old Walmart brand white pills here.  Guess what, (dummy here), my stomach can no longer dissolve the cheapo pills in time to make a difference.  Hubby has since retrieved both liquid and powdered Tylenol and my outlook had really improved!  the more you know!

So, this has gone on longer than intended and I haven't even posted my goals or my before pic.  Geez, Jenna, get with it! 

My goals:

1. More time with my kids

2. Hiking with my scouts

3. normal chairs

4. Not paying extra for the larger sizes

5. rides that I don’t have to squeeze into

6. My uniforms fitting

7. getting off the medications (I'm diabetic)

And, alas, the before pics. These were taken about a week ago. I did lose 40lbs prior to this picture throughout the prep process.